The Polycule Agreement Generator

Built for Real Polycules

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Offer expires Dec 19, 2025

BEGIN YOUR CUSTOMIZED AGREEMENT
  • Ours center polycule realities, chosen kinship, and the full spectrum of what multi-partner relationships actually look like.

  • We go places others won’t: power, intersectionality, community obligations, safer sex cultures, privacy in unsupportive environments, and what consent looks like across multiple relationships.

    This isn’t just paperwork, it’s political practice.

  • We don’t assume “primary partners” or the relationship escalator.

    Our questions help your polycule build agreements that are egalitarian, fair, and based on shared values, not inherited norms.

What Makes Our Agreements One-of-a-Kind

START YOUR POLYCULE AGREEMENT

HOW IT WORKS

  • STEP 1

    Complete Our Comprehensive Questionnaire

    Create an account in the Collaborative Access Portal and start a form to begin answering questions that will cover your polycule’s preferences.

  • STEP 2

    Review and Adjust Your Agreement

    You’ll have the opportunity to review your answers and make adjustments to ensure every detail is perfect for your situation.

  • STEP 3

    Receive Your Customized Agreement

    Based on your responses, we generate a tailored polycule agreement that aligns to your polycule’s specific needs.

  • STEP 4

    Book a Peer Session with Millie and Nick

    Go over your polycule agreement, settle disagreements, and learn how to rely on it when issues arise. This step is optional.

BENEFITS OF CUSTOMIZED RELATIONSHIP AGREEMENTS

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

  • Our polycule agreement is designed so all kinds of polyamorists can use it: relationship anarchists, solo polyamorists, egalitarian poly folks, even swingers.

    It’s flexible enough for polycules where all the partners can’t all be in the same room. For example, maybe the polycule has metamours that are parallel, navigating a conflict, juggling mismatched schedules, or living long-distance.

  • Not quite. We’re actively working on expanding the Polycule Agreement for triads, quads, and similar dynamics. These are in development because we’re committed to ensuring that every agreement we offer meets the highest standards of quality and effectiveness. To achieve this, we rigorously test all our tools, consult with therapists to incorporate expert insights, and patent each creation to protect its innovation. While this process takes time, we’re dedicated to crafting agreements that genuinely support the needs of more complex relationship dynamics. We’re excited to have these available soon!

  • The questions cover a range of topics including values, privacy, scheduling, communication, holidays, couple privilege, identity politics, safer s*x, living arrangements, finances, consent and rupture protocols, death planning, and how to exit the polycule after a breakup etc. This comprehensive approach ensures that all critical areas of your polycule are addressed.

  • Typically, it takes about 60 to 90 minutes to complete the questionnaire, depending on how detailed you are with your responses. We recommend setting aside uninterrupted time to thoughtfully answer each question.

  • Yes, you can save your progress at any point and return to complete the questionnaire at your convenience as long as you do not delete your cache browser. Furthermore, we designed a Collaborative Access Portal for you to collaborate asynchronously with your polycule so that you can everyone can collaborate and edit every step of the way.

  • Absolutely. We prioritize the confidentiality and security of your personal information. All data from your questionnaire responses are encrypted and securely stored, accessible only to you and our team as necessary for creating your agreement.

  • All parties involved in the polycule should contribute to the questionnaire to ensure that the agreement reflects everyone's perspectives and needs. We encourage open discussions among partners as well as use of the chat feature in the Collaborative Access Portal to facilitate shared understanding and consensus.

  • While our customized agreements are a great tool for setting clear expectations and boundaries, they are not legally binding documents. However, they can serve as a strong foundation for mutual understanding and commitment among all parties involved.

  • The Polycule Agreement is designed to be flexible, so there’s absolutely no need to complete it immediately after purchase. It doesn’t expire, and you can take all the time you need to work on it.

    This means the polycule can start whenever ready, whether that’s tomorrow, next month, or even next year. Plus, you can work through it at your own pace, whether you choose to complete it in one sitting or revisit sections over time. No rush, no pressure, it’s all about what works best for all of you!

  • Unfortunately, there is no discount if you choose to purchase multiple polyamory agreements.

Your relationships deserve tools that are safe and rooted in the politics you live by.

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