Polyamory
Peer Sessions

"Millie listened well, and interrupted me only and exactly when I needed to be reined in. She hit that balance of being kind and direct. Impressive. Thank you."

"The session format and expectations were set up front. I felt listened to and understood. I understood in a safe way I might have to sit with some things that may be uncomfortable. Recommended resources were relevant and modern. Questions and observations were fair and pushed toward greater self-understanding."

"I appreciated that my thinking was challenged. The reading material along with the relationship menu was very helpful. Though I think I could have used a bit more instruction on how to use it — I got it figured out after some trial and error. Looking forward to our next session!"

"The session was insightful with an in depth dialogue between the three of us (Nick, Millie & I). They listened, posed constructive questions, and fashioned the discussion specifically to my concerns. In the end, they offered practical advice in helping me navigate some uncharted waters in my polyamorous journey. I am grateful for their support and look forward to future sessions."

"We really liked the resources and the way that Nick worked to help Silas get to some root issues. It would have been better if the session was a little longer, so more time to explore each person's perspective. But thanks again, you guys were really helpful. And we'll be definitely reaching out again soon."

"I loved how Millie and Nick approached with care and providing information that can be a lot but they make it easy to digest. They are amazing! Loved all the books they recommended to us so we can continue our personal and relationship growth."

"This is my second session and I have ended the session feeling heard, seen, and understood. I appreciate the patience and care from Millie and her way of holding space for me. Thank you!"

"It was great to see how much concrete things can be shared in 30 min. I was afraid it would be a bit cold, such a short time for such an intimate topic, but I loved the presence and attention. It gave me confidence and reaffirmed my own aspiration. Happy advent vibes from Berlin!"

"I quickly wished I had gone with the 60 min session! I felt heard and good to know my feelings are not uncommon. We quickly purchased the jealousy workbook and look forward to scheduling another session soon."

"I appreciated that Millie and Nick both offer their authentic perspectives and opinions, in a way that is respectful and compassionate, but also extremely honest. Also, because I want to be able to continue to work with Millie and Nick as mediators if necessary, I appreciate that they remain neutral and impartial."

"I liked that it was a non-judgmental space and there were additional resources suggested so my partner and I can continue on our non-monogamous journey."

"Loved having my 'expert' poly ways challenged so beautifully so I could see a lot clearer. I got great actionable steps to help me feel more agency and clarity."

"Very insightful, gave me great tools to use in navigating my new relationship and having self-worth."

"Millie and Nick are so knowledgeable and empathetic, I can't wait to go through all the great material they recommended to us."

"It was really affirming, and it wasn't until I was in the session that I realised that is what I was needing. To be affirmed in my next steps into Polyamory. I also came away with some places to look for connecting with other solo poly people. Nick was very generous with his time, and I felt he covered all my questions. I have recommended to friends and would book a session again."

"You were both absolutely amazing, really understanding and with some very useful food for thought and resources recommendations. I will certainly book a peer session again in the future and I would like to thank you so much for your time and efforts."

"Everything was great. I felt challenged. Super easy to book and pay. Happy with the experience."

"I loved the helpful observation that my autistic partner needs time to process when I express my needs and the suggestion that we rely more on calls to bridge the distance gap."

"Millie and Nick, you were great to talk with! We appreciated your outline of what we were going to communicate about based on the information we previously provided. We felt that the conversation was very thorough and informative and honest and fun. The resources you provided are great additional tools that we look forward to using. We enjoyed the full experience."

"My peer session was very helpful to gain clarity about myself and about my relationship with my partner. I received some tools to use to communicate better about my needs as well as validations for some red flags that I wasn't sure were normal for a poly relationship or not. I feel seen and heard and supported on my journey. Thank you so much."

"My experience with both Millie and Nick was amazing. They were both so kind, compassionate, understanding and professional. They helped me find a new sense of confidence which I really appreciated."

"Nick and Millie listened to my concerns and offered excellent insight and support. I'd highly recommend them to anyone!"

"Appreciate the empathy and understanding, ability to hold space without judgement."

"Millie was knowledgeable, compassionate, and passionate in her approach to working with me as a client. Her skills and experience helped me work through situations in my life and gave me valuable insight to help me in my future."

"Nick was super easy to talk to!"

"I am enjoying my 1:1 meetings with Nick. His insight from his years of experience are tremendously helping me become a better version of myself. I enjoy that he shows up prepared, takes notes and digs deep in our sessions. The questions he asks and the homework he gives are all pieces of the puzzle of life that I need at this time. My partner and I also have a double session with Nick and Millie which was super insightful and left a huge impact on us."

"Millie was an empathetic listener, offered tangible suggestions to help me adjust to a major transition in my life, and also directed me to additional resources. It was very helpful."

"Excellent! We will book again."

"Had a great chat! I'm new to this relationship style and Millie shared valuable perspective and resources."

"Loved working with them both in my session. They validated so much and also pushed me to think of what to do next. Will be booking again."

"Nick and Millie make an amazing peer counseling support team. I've been poly for 4 years and their vast experience and varying styles of analysis helped me recognize some key patterns I need to work on myself. Give them a try for yourself and see, I recommend the 60 min session with them both."

"They offered some fantastic insight and connected me with resources, and let me know different things to expect. They gave me some great starting points to look into and expand upon. Thanks again!"

"Millie fitted so much into my 30 min session and gave me lots to think about. It was great to hear a different perspective and would definitely recommend if you have anything you're working through and want help, with no judgement."

"I really enjoyed the session with Nick and Millie. They were super empathetic and supportive and pragmatic. They delivered their opinions and advice in a positive but realistic tone. Overall I found their experience and the session much valuable. Surely we'll resort to their help in the future as things evolve."

"I came out to my partner as wanting to be polyamorous and they are struggling. Millie provided supportive and helpful insights that are allowing me to keep my resolve and be kind, calm and patient with my partner. Thank you Millie!"

"Had a great intro 30-minute session with Nick. One tip: book an hour as you'll want to keep talking!"

"What an incredibly valuable experience. They listened attentively and provided thoughtful insights that gave me new perspective to situations. One aspect I appreciated was using personal experiences to paint a picture rather than using theoreticals or analogies. I would definitely schedule another myself."

"Millie is understanding, very easy to talk to, nonjudgmental and offers a wealth of suggestions and insights. I left our session feeling hopeful and less alone. Thank you Millie."

"I felt like it was an incredibly productive session, I was able to address so many things that worried me, and got great advice and plans on things I could do to better my life. Highly recommend it!"

"Empathetic and very clear!"

"Definitely would recommend! Millie had a lot of good tips and questions to help with some poly and relationship troubleshooting. She was very caring but also honest and straightforward, and has a clear wealth of experience in focusing on the core issue."

"Had a chat with Millie and it was such a lovely conversation. It really doesn't matter how much experience you have in practicing ethical non-monogamy, even if you're experienced there's a lot to share and learn. Definitely recommend the peer support session."

"I booked a 30 minute session and it was so helpful and reaffirming. Millie and Nick were open, insightful and easy to talk to. I absolutely plan to book another session in the future."

"I had another great chat with Millie and Nick! I always love talking to them. They gave me some more wonderful tips and insights. Thank you!"

"Had an amazing and enlightening conversation with Nick. He really listened to my experience and provided me with concrete guidance. Definitely going to return as I continue the poly journey!"

"Millie and Nick were SO helpful to me. They were warm and straightforward. They made sure we got clear on what I needed out of the time and offered concrete resources, sound advice, and much encouragement. I definitely recommend meeting with them."

"Nick and Millie are the bee's knees. I was honored with intentional, thoughtful and goal oriented curiosity. They both brought their own individual and collaborative experience with wise insight and practical guidance. Go schedule a session now."

"Was great to talk with Decolonizing Love. They were very helpful and provided some constructive insight while also providing some good resources to move forward in the journey of ENM."

"Nick and Millie were wicked easy to talk to. Very professional and friendly and provided really great tools and resources. We would definitely recommend either of them if someone was looking for peer support on these topics. 5 stars!"

"I had a great session with Millie. She was thoughtful and listened and provided great resources and encouragement."

"Nick was so kind, thoughtful and helpful. I was having a big wobble and he really helped me see things from a new perspective and I left with loads of tools to help me move forward."

"Millie was very supportive, empathetic and spoke with truth and conviction in a very soft, gentle and empowering way. Although the session was short, Millie used the time well and was engaged in finding ways to support me, providing not only reassurance, but also valuable advice."

"Very helpful, not judgmental — approached with problem solving and ideas. Took me out of a spiral of doom into a plan of action. Will definitely be back and will encourage my partner to as well."

"Back again, this time with Nick, and again it was just such a great session. I feel like I learn so much in so little time. I also really appreciate the way he discusses the way masculinity can play out in our poly dynamics."

"I felt SO SEEN and so held through all of the kinks of executing on my desires. Thank you so much for being so present and real in everything you do."

"Incredible session. I felt heard throughout and was given practical exercises and prompts for what I was curious about. Highly recommend to spend some time if you have any questions or concerns about your relationships."

"Anytime I have booked a session I am always so grateful and touched by their kind, loving and insightful words and advice. Their values on love, care, safety and community speak volumes and it always shows. Thank you."

"I felt so cared for, connected and understood when I spoke with Nick and Millie. They have such a beautiful and objective way of viewing the world! I highly recommend booking a session with them!"

"Simply wonderful. They are experts at their craft. They listened without judgement and gave me insight. I will definitely be booking with them again."