
Polyamory
Coaching
Private peer sessions for individuals, couples, and polycules navigating non-monogamy. Coaching from two people who've lived it, not a textbook.
What Changes
After a Few Sessions
Clients
You stop dreading hard conversations.
You know the one. Maybe it's about a new partner. Maybe it's an agreement that isn't working and nobody wants to bring it up. You leave a session with a plan for what to say.
You stop wondering if you're broken.
The structure you grew up with isn't the only one available. We sort out what you've inherited from what you want.
Jealousy gets useful instead of unbearable.
Most of the time jealousy is information. The work is figuring out what it's pointing at, and what (if anything) has to change because of it.
You stop figuring this out alone.
Polyamory in a monogamy-default world is isolating. We've been at this for over a decade. You get to think out loud with people who've lived it.
What Clients Say
Our clients come from all walks of life, different backgrounds, different relationship structures, different struggles. What they share is the courage to show up and do the work.
Hear directly from someone who's been through it, no scripts, no filters, just an honest account of what it's like to work with us.
1 in 5 clients book a second session.
Pick a Session
- 30 minutes$70
- 60 minutes$129
- 90-minute mediation$200
Same price for one person, a couple or a polycule.
Book a Session (opens in new tab)If money is tight: sliding scale for low-income clients and clients in the Global South (full this month), or a free session (opens in new tab) for people who can't pay (1 left). First-come, first-served.
What Happens in a Polyamory Peer Session?
Exploring Non-Monogamy
Looking at different relationship structures and building agreements & boundaries that are right for you.
Effective Communication
Set boundaries with your partners, name what you need, and resolve conflicts when they come up.
Building Secure Attachment
Develop skills to create and maintain secure, fulfilling attachments within a non-monogamous context.
Power in Relationships
Understand how systems of oppression influence relationships and learn to navigate them with awareness and resilience.
Addressing Jealousy & Trauma
Identify how past traumas affect your relationships and develop strategies to manage feelings of jealousy, turning them into growth.
Being a Better Hinge
Being the link between two or more partners is its own job. We help you do it without losing yourself or feeling like you're the one breaking everything.
Ready to explore any of these topics?
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Our Coaching Draws from Lived Experience
Decolonizing Love is rooted in two lifetimes of navigating non-monogamy across cultures. Millie brings a lifetime of polyamorous living, informed by her Kenyan tribal culture and her path as a bisexual and non-binary person. Nick has been practicing polyamory since 2010 and brings over a decade of executive coaching methodology into the work.
Frequently
Asked
Questions
Everything you need to know about peer sessions, mediation, and how we can support your journey.
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Become the best version of yourself in your polyamorous relationships. Let Millie and Nick guide you every step of the way.
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