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Whether you're a couple or a polycule, craft a custom agreement that honors every voice, boundary, and desire in your relationship.
What Is a Polyamory Relationship Agreement?
Two Tools, One Mission
Relationship Agreement
A bespoke agreement tailored for two partners. Answer 100+ personalized questions covering boundaries, finances, intimacy, and more, and receive a custom PDF that becomes your relationship's foundation.
- 100+ personalized questions - choose your own adventure style!
- Custom PDF agreement generated
- Covers boundaries, finances, intimacy
- Works for any couple structure from open to exclusive
- Tested and consulted on by relationship experts and therapists
Polycule Agreement
Designed for polyamorous relationships with three or more partners. Navigate the beautiful complexity of multi-partner dynamics with a structured, inclusive agreement that gives every voice equal weight.
- Collaborate on a single agreement for 3+ partners
- Custom PDF agreement generated
- Addresses hierarchy & agreements affecting the whole polycule
- Scheduling, boundaries & communication
- Inclusive of all polycule structures
Your Path, Your Agreement
Every answer shapes your journey. Questions appear, hide, and adapt based on your responses. No two agreements are alike.
Answer Together
Each answer unlocks new questions
Your Path Unfolds
Irrelevant questions are skipped
We Build Your PDF
All paths converge into your agreement
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Receive your PDF via email and optionally book a peer session to review it together
Answer Together
Each answer unlocks new questions
Your Path Unfolds
Irrelevant questions are skipped
We Build Your PDF
All paths converge into one agreement
Delivered Instantly
PDF via email, optionally book a peer session
$149, in context.
Price alone doesn't mean much. What matters is what this replaces, and what it prevents.
- One session with a poly-informed therapistCovers one conversation, once.
- $150–300
- A cohabitation or partnership agreementLegal fees, billable by the hour.
- $500–2,500
- Mediation if the relationship breaks down laterThe cost of not having an agreement.
- $2,000–10,000
- Building this yourself with a therapist, hourly5–8 hours at $150–300/hr.
- $750–2,400
- Books, podcasts, and workbooks combinedAnd you still have to synthesize it all.
- $60–200
- Your bespoke agreementYours to keep, and to come back to when the relationship shifts.
- $149
Priced like one therapy session. Built to prevent the $2,000+ ones that follow. Costs above are US industry averages; your local rates may vary.
This Isn't Just Paperwork.
It's Political Practice.
One Million Paths, One PDF
Two years in development, tested by therapists and experienced polyamorous partners. 100+ adaptive questions across over 1 million possible paths. No two PDFs are alike.
Rooted in a Decolonizing Framework
We go places others won't: power, intersectionality, community obligations, safer sex cultures, privacy in unsupportive environments, and what consent looks like across relationships.
Anti-Hierarchy by Design
We don't assume primary partners or the relationship escalator. Our questions help you build agreements that are egalitarian, fair, and based on shared values, not inherited norms.
Topics Covered
What the Community Says
"This agreement changed how we communicate. For the first time, we had a shared language for our boundaries and desires."
Alex & Jordan
Polyamorous triad
"We thought we knew everything about each other after 8 years. The questionnaire opened doors we didn't know existed."
Maya & Chris
Long-term partnership
"As someone in a non-traditional relationship, finding tools that actually include us is rare. This felt like it was made for us."
Sam
Relationship anarchist
Questions?
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Everything you need to know before building your relationship or polycule agreement.
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